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Learn to Apply the Secret Law of Attraction in Every Area of Life
Everybody has heard of the benefits of positive thinking, of saying affirmations; I can say with confidence that few people can make things happen consistently. What is missing is the knowledge to apply the natural Law of Attraction, what was known to the ancient initiates as Magical Intention. It is applying this Law that attracts to us whatever we want.
Everyone is individual, with their own desires and needs, yet we all share something in common, we all want to understand how to be successful in whatever we attempt to do. Every person wants to be employed in a position which makes the most of their interests and skills; every person wants to have a successful relationship; everybody wants to create happiness in their lives.l
If you find yourself experiencing the same thing over and over, then it is time to do something different.
Equilibrium runs courses and seminars and personal coaching for all those people ready and willing to change. Many people want to change their lives, yet they still want to remain the same person as before. Working with Equilibrium guarantees a complete transformation and you will experience a new confidence to meet the world.
The Most Popular Seminars are:-- “Attracting the Perfect Partner” – Relationship Seminar for Singles (also suited to couples wanting to rebuild passion in their relationship
- The “Avatar® Course” – Licensed through Star’s Edge International, after more than twenty years this is still the most outstanding personal evolution programme yet devised
- Private Channelling Sessions – Mercredan is an non-physical being that offers experience and guidance from another dimension
- “Quality for Life” – A personal coaching system for bringing balance and alignment to individuals using a reinterpretation of the Deming’s 14 points of quality management
The intention of Equilibrium Human Development is to bring a spiritual focus back into a person’s life, bringing harmony and balance into all areas, and an ecology of purpose.
We use a variety of clarification tools combined with what can be called “metaphysical advantage” or determined focus. Metaphysical Advantage amounts to:-IQ + EQ + SQ = Wholeness / Creation (outcome)
IQ = Mental Blueprint
EQ = Motivational Charge (either towards or away from)
SQ = Concept of balance / wholeness or consequence (every action has a consequence)
so SQ means seeing the consequences of actions or Karma.
“We” must consider what we will bequeath to our children, our grandchildren and generations to come as the consequences of present actions take effect. “We” must recognise that what is good for us, must also be good for everyone if we are to survive better than the short term.
“History is the record of the actions of our ancestors, and we are the history of generations to come.”
Explore the Possibilities
Delaine Jones
Counsellor & Life Strategy Coach
Delaine has developed a unique approach to counselling and life strategy coaching. By tracing your history back to childhood, and finding the first life hurt or disappointment which created your current difficulties, Delaine helps you get to the bottom of them. You don’t require endless sessions with her to crack your difficulty and begin ways of changing it.
Her training in Re-evalutation Counselling prepared her for identifying patterns of behaviour which people often mistake for personality, and which are the culprits behind most depressions, addictions and even ways of coping with anger, grief and other emotional reactions that people can’t control. By the time your first hour is complete, you have many BFOs (Blinding Flashes of the Obvious) of pure awareness as to why your life has its difficulties.
You will be coached with the beginning tracks for learning new skills and tools that equip you to change those outcomes you often get stuck with on a day to day level.
Relationship counselling is her forte, as she has had many years experience counselling couples who have conflict operating throughout their communications with each other. Unlike most therapeutic approaches, Delaine spots the difficulity between a couple within the first 10 minutes of their time together, and she is able to guide them as the mediator/trainer to a skill base which brings the couple closer through understanding each others’ patterns which operate the conflict. She will often say that each person is innocent, but that doesn’t make arguing with a partner easy as the nature of patterns date back to our survival skills as children.
Her training varies to that of most therapists and you will feel as if you have chatted with a well informed friend at the end of your first session with her. The hour or so will fly and you will feel time has played a trick on you. Healing is nine tenths the awareness of where your patterns rule your life, and then Delaine will coach you to do the opposite to these patterns, freeing you up from what felt like enslavement to a way of being.
Because she can see outside your patterns she can help you break your own patterns.
She has a particular empathy for the nature of problems that each of the sexes have difficulty with. Men find her pragmatic and practical to work with and both men and woman find her sussinct and to the point about the endless cycles which they are trapped in. Her in-depth study of how men and women’s patterns sit in the ways they relate to each other answers many of the blocked or hidden misunderstanding of the opposite sex. Men and women have been set up to perform in certain ways not only through society’s conditioning, but also through inherited methods of oppression of each other. During her classes it is not uncommon that women will cry listening to a panel of men talking about the ways they have been hurt in their lives. Similarly men go quiet when they hear the stories of women in how they put themselves last in almost everything they do. Both men and women can experience these hurts, however men’s distresses differ greatly to women’s. Just a few ideas of how each sex supports the misunderstandings which get passed down from generation to generation. Delaine brings this information to her clients and before long they are no longer under the influence of those attitudes and enables them to choose more benefital ways of being through simple information and support.
Delaine can help you change to a considerable degree and in most cases completely. She will help you with:-- Depression
- Conflict resolution
- Anger management
- Anxiety disorders
- Communication skills
- Executive/corporate stress
- Health issues stemming from blocked emotions
- Cultural awareness
- Lifestyle/career guidance
- Crisis management
- Support for difficult transitions
- Loneliness and isolation
- Finding the elusive partner
- Addictions
- Suicidal thinking
Talk with Delaine and you will have a sense that you are not alone any more, and you will be well informed to make real changes in your life.
Francis
Change your Mind and Keep the Changes
What is NLP and how does it relate to hypnosis?
NLP, which stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming, and Neuro Semantics were both terms originally defined by Alfred Korzybski, writing about a theory he proposed under the heading of General Semantics. In the early 1970s Richard Bandler and John Grinder worked together to formulate an understanding of how the brain worked like a computer and was programmed using a relatively simple system. The study of how the mind could be reprogrammed linguistically arose under the general title of NLP. Later on Michael Hall added another branch of the study under his own title of meta-states, and later Neuro Semantics.
NLP works by altering the way connections are made in the neurology of the brain. As a result “magical” healing can take place. NLP is often confused with a set of models that make change easy, but NLP is not these patterns but a far wider study. Because NLP patterns are so powerful change mechanisms as much damage can be done as improvement in the hands of a less than skillful operator
The language patterns of NLP are closely associated with those often used in hypnosis, yet hypnosis is not always NLP. Hypnotic language speaks to the unconscious parts of the mind in ways that that part ca understand. Sometimes hypnosis can be used to circumvent aspects of a person that are hindering positive changes.
The purpose for all mind therapies is to encourage you to bring your overall life into harmony and balance. As an NLP hypnosis therapist, I use a wide range of tools to find ways to alter the patterns that create limitation in a person’s life. NLP is a strategic method based on a principle called TOTE. These letters stand for the process of Test – Operate – Test – Exit. As a therapeutic approach, NLP always contains a test for an existing state, a process for change and a test that the process has generalised before ending the session.
The TOTE structure is used in a way that:-- recognises the existing comparative desire potential.(ie)What you want compared to what you don’t want
- designs a well-formed mental strategy for utilising the desire (what you do want) potential
- sets up a series of experimental actions under supervision that leads you to experience a collapse in the old behaviour
- Creates a new behaviour experientially that gives you what you actually want.
This just means learning to behave to get what you want while making sure that it is what you “really” want.
My therapeutic interventions, whether for personal or business coaching, can be challenging, and always productive. I believe that there is no point paying for coaching if one is not prepared to make the changes wanted and needed.
“My methods stand on an underlying foundational belief, that each one of us has a life purpose, and we need a plan of action to actualise ourselves.
To achieve “success” in whatever way you understand the term, means setting a direction to sail, motivated and aligned by clear concise knowledge of our own values, with clear, concise, measurable outcomes along the way. All this is known as a wellformed outcome.
Strategic Astrology
Another unique approach to counselling developed by Francis is Strategic Astrology. Astrology is used in this as a way of uncovering the hidden resources each one of us has as part of their personality, and then using therapeutic change techniques to develop your full potential. The natal birth chart is a symbolic representation of the potential of a soul-being within a social, cultural and familial context. The cycles of transits are external pressures that are always bearing down, and progressions represent responses made to those pressures. Through discussing these three aspects and other factors with a client, I can place life challenges into perspective, and identify the timing of the major wounding experience that most people continue to reproduce in an endless cycle.
By uncovering the balancing potentials every person has we develop a strategy and direction forward. With these understandings in place, we can use the change technology of Neuro Linguistic Programming, Neuro Semantics, and Hypnosis to align the presiding mental strategies with the desired outcomes.
I have prepared this method as an on-line counselling process.
First Session: Engaged in through email connections, you send:-- A brief description of the life challenges that you are experiencing. (Use the Well-Formed Outcome process at the bottom of this page to help focus on what you want different from what you are already experiencing).
- Your date of birth
- The place where you were born
- The time you were born, if known accurately
- The place where you currently live
- A current passport type photograph or scanned picture
- A short history, including such things as
- The first time you moved house
- The date you first went to school
- The date of any major illness or hospitalisation
- The dates of marriages, deaths of parents, and any other significant factors
You will receive:-- natal plus transits/progressions charts in jpeg format.
- A detailed personality profile related to the life issues (not computer generated)
- A brief description of where you are up to and the sort of external pressures that may be applying to you and where that may lead
- Suggestions for the directions and ways to address the issues
Session 2: In the next part of the process, you write an conclusions, insights, reflections and clarifications that come to you after reading the personality profile. This is limited to 2 pages of text.
Then I send you my responses to your insights, and further develop the diagnostic astrology. I also send you written and practical exercises to do over a set period.
Remaining Sessions: You send in the results from the exercises and experiments, along with any insights, consclusions and any noticeable changes in behaviour and feedback from significant other people.
I send you extracts from texts, or recommend reading, along with more exercises. If desirable I send hynotic tapes or CDs (extra charges for these).
At other times telephone contact can be made when personal contact is desirable.
The specific tools used can, yet not necessarily do, include:- Incorporation Spiritual Astrology and esoteric Psychology
- Natural Hypnosis and Trance Phenomena
- NLP interventions and Time Tracking
- Provocative Interventions
- Activating the Soul Purpose
- Other tools for changing consciousness
Service Categories
Counselling, Energy Healing, Hypnotherapist, Life Coaching, NLP, Psychotherapy, Spiritual Healing
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